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Friday, March 09, 2012

Think carefully and choose wisely!
My life is very complicated and I am to blame for it. I do not know what to do now. I’m a 19-yr-old male. When I was in 10th standard I got friendly with Manisha, but that was not love, that was just an attraction. In 11th she broke off as her family is against love marriage. I was badly hurt. I do not know why, because I wasn’t in love with her. Later, in 12th I became a flirt and I had two affairs one with Vinita and  another with Neeta. First I had a physical relationship with Vinita and broke off with her a month ago. Now I’m planning to have sex with Neeta next month, and then we will separate willingly. There is another girl in my life, Neha and am truly in love with her. She too loves me very much. Neha knows everything about my earlier relationship with Manisha and also about my relationship with Neeta but I lied to her that I and Neeta have broken off a month ago. I am not much close to Neha but we discuss my affairs frankly and hence she does not trust me fully. I have tried to gain her trust many times but I can’t? Is it possible that she does not trust me, and then too she loves me madly. What must I do? I m stuck, I cannot leave Neha as I love her and I cannot leave Neeta as I want to have sex with her, both things are very important for me but Neha is more important than sex with Neeta but I want both. Is it possible? And is it possible that Neha does not trust me, then too she loves me madly?

It is less important whether you can have your cake and eat it too. What is more important is how you will feel about yourself after that. You seem to come across as a person with a conscience in spite of your having given in to temptation. You have made errors, but then you are human. However, part of being human is also having been given the ability to choose wisely. Today you can make a better and wiser choice which will be in conjunction with your sensitive conscience. Think carefully and choose wisely. You will have to live with the choices you make today.

Peyronie disease
I am a 22-yr-old unmarried man. My penis is curved towards the left. I read in a magazine that this is known as Peyronie disease. Will this curvature cause any problem during intercourse? Is there anyway to correct it? I am too concerned about this problem.

Penises come in different sizes and shapes. If a penis has always been curved, it could be just a variation of normal. Men are often sensitive about this subject, but I assure you, it is functionally nothing to worry about. Women mostly care about affection, attentiveness, communication and a gentle foreplay. Therefore, the size and shape are not decisive factors affecting sexual satisfaction for most of the women.

If a penis is curving gradually as time progresses, it could be due to Peyronie’s Disease. Peyronie’s disease (also known as plastic induration of the penis or fibrous cavernositis), first described by French doctor Francois de la Peyronie in 1743, is characterised by the formation of a plaque or hardened scar tissue (fibrosis) beneath the skin of the penis that causes pain, curvature, and distortion, usually during erection.

For patients with Peyronie’s disease treatment options are limited. The goal of treatment is to maintain sexual function and reduce pain. Surgery is the only effectual treatment, and because Peyronie’s disease may resolve on its own, sexologists often advise waiting for one or two years before selecting this option.

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