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Friday, August 19, 2011

Respond to your inner calling
I want to take up the career in ‘Psychology’. My father is a businessman. He wants me to get a degree in Commerce, which doesn’t interest me at all. I love my father. I don’t want to displease him. He has done a lot for me. But at the same time I don’t want to take a career that I don’t like. What should I do?

Your father has lived his life and you have to live your own. I am sure your father has the best of intentions at heart as all other well-meaning parents. But, you can only be the best of who you are, and not the best of who he wants you to be. If Psychology is truly your passion and your calling, so be it. Get into it and give it your very best. When your father sees your joy and passion, how could he not be happy for you? But if he stubbornly sticks to his stance, then he and only he is responsible for his own unhappiness. You need to follow your heart and fulfill the purpose of your life. Of course, it is important for you to be sure of your own interest in Psychology. If you are sure, then dedicatedly pursue your goals without looking back.

Masturbation myth
I am masturbating almost regularly since the age of 14. I am now 25 and still masturbate. Is this abnormal / harmful?
Masturbation is a harmless activity. Most boys (men) discover masturbation in their teens and practice it frequently. It is harmless and has no ill effects on one’s body (health) or sexuality. However, the ‘guilt’ associated with masturbation can be detrimental to one’s emotional health and self-esteem. Masturbation is considered abnormal only in the following situations:-

If it is done in front of others.

If proper hygiene is not maintained during and after the act.

If it is done in a manner that can cause injury to the organ.

If it is chosen over intercourse in married couples, even when the spouse is willing to have intercourse.

If it becomes an “obsession” and starts affecting other aspects of one’s life like career, education, relationships, etc.

 

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