Love life with baby around
We have a baby who will be two years next month. We make love when baby is asleep in the same room. Sometimes we keep the baby in another room. We need advice as how long we can make love with him in our room when he is asleep. We want to be careful as we plan to shift him into his room when he is around 4, till then he will be sleeping with us.
It is important for both of you to be relaxed when you share intimacy with each other, and privacy is needed for such relaxation. As long as you are sure that your baby is fast asleep or in the other room you can be relaxed. It is quite okay till he/she is four as children of that age are not aware of sexual intimacy. So do not worry.
Aging and sex
I am a 67-year-old man and enjoy having sex once or twice in a fortnight. After doing it my legs start paining and I also breathe very fast. Till date I do not have BP, diabetes or any heart disease. Only my family doctor tells me that I am a patient of hyperacidity, fear and anxiety. Now I want your advice.
1. Upto what age sex can be enjoyed?
2. Is it harmful to my health and what will be side-effects to my health in my future life. After doing so I feel very much weak, so what medicine I should take? Sometimes I take multi-vitamin capsules.
One can enjoy sex till one desires and is capable of, with mutual consent. However, the aging process affects all aspects of life; that is why there is something like ‘retirement age’ when even the most capable person has to quit his job and position. Aging gradually restricts all physical functions and affects all corporal attributes. How can the ability to perform sexual intercourse be an exception? The muscular pains and exhaustion are a natural consequence of any physical exercise that is stretched beyond your natural physical capacity.
A regular 40 minutes walk, balanced diet and adequate rest will help you to remain in good health and have a longer sex life.
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