Vaginal discharge
I am a 17-yr-old junior college girl. I wish to know about the ‘vaginal discharge’ that I notice from time to time. Some people say it is normal, some say it is a sign of fungus or infection. I am confused. Kindly clarify.
Most adolescent girls get a sticky, white discharge from their vagina. This is a perfectly normal and healthy sign that pubertal changes have begun in you. Sometimes, this discharge can get on a girl’s underwear. It is good to pay close attention to your normal discharge and how it changes during your monthly cycle so that you can recognize any unusual signs or changes. If you closely pay attention, you will notice that the discharge is not always the same. Sometimes it may be clear while at other times it may be a bit whitish. When you are ovulating, it may become clear and slippery. A female’s vaginal fluids/discharge also alter when she gets sexually aroused.
If the discharge becomes thicker or heavier, changes colour to yellow, green, rusty or brown, or causes burning or itching in the private parts, it is suggestive of an infection. Foul-smelling discharge, and pain or bleeding in the vagina when you are not in your menstrual period, are also signs of infection. If you experience any of these changes, you will need to see a doctor.
Dreamy romantic state
I’m in love. But she doesn’t love me. She likes me a lot. She tries a lot to tempt me and often I lose control and forcefully kiss her. She then remains angry with me for few days and after I keep pleading with her, she forgives me. Again she repeats the same and provokes me to touch her, so I caress her body. She surrenders first and suddenly slaps me. I’m confused; what is she expecting from me? I cannot think of any other girl than her. Also I won’t be marrying anyone else in my life. Please guide me, because I don’t want to continue with the same. I love her a lot and don’t want to force her for anything. Please give me a few tips so that I can find out whether she really loves me or not.
Everyone wants to feel attractive, and this is the reason why the girl in question is turning on her charm. The problem is only that you seem to be getting a whole lot more serious about a relationship with her than she is with you. The only way for you to save yourself from this torture, is for you to keep to yourself for a while after telling her that you are interested in going on with her only if she feels the same way about you, and that she will have to make the first move for you to be sure. Then wait and watch. If she makes the first move, have a heart to heart talk about the relationship and where both of you see it going before getting into it again. If she does not make a move, then get out of your dreamy romantic state and move on with life for your own sake. This is definitely not the end of the world.