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Dear Grace, I Have A Problem...

Thursday, December 07, 2017

Dear Grace,
I am in love with this guy who is quite independent. Our homes are anything but close to each other. Although we are friends and have been dating seriously for quite a while, at times he doesn’t respond to my calls or text messages. But he calls and talks to me when he is in the mood (or free). I am scared that if I confess my love for him, it might frighten him off. I am not sure if he is ready to commit to me. I really like him but I don’t want anyone to play with my feelings. I don’t know what to do. Any advice on how I should tackle this strange situation that I find myself in?
– Rebecca Dias, Malad (W)
Dear Rebecca,

While you seem to be frustrated because you feel as though he doesn’t respect you, that might not be the case. He may really be busy. However, it’s best to have an open discussion about what both of you want from the relationship. Don’t confess your so-called love for him just yet. You can decide whether you should tell him about your strong feelings based upon the discussion you have. However, every relationship involves some give and take, and you will have to fight for what you want. That said, don’t let anyone play with your feelings. Try and understand why he does this, and it may give you an insight into your partner. If he is stringing you along, cut ties and get on with your life.

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